paternal instincts (Father’s Day)
John and Carol go to a nice restaurant to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary. As soon as they’re seated, Carol heads to the restroom. The waiter comes over while she’s away to see if they’d like to start with an appetizer or drinks. John goes ahead and orders both of their meals. He figures that after 30 years…
The need for patience
When it comes to cultivating unity, one aspect required is patience. Patience is the glue that holds unity together. We define patience as “the capacity to tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset (Oxford Dictionary). The first half of that definition seems bearable. It’s the second half of that definition that gives us heartburn.
The Need for humility
Racial unity is a noble pursuit, but it requires more than good intentions. It demands intentional actions and a willingness to learn. One essential quality that fosters unity is humility. Oxford Dictionary defines humility as “a modest view of one’s own importance.” Colossians 3:12 notes “Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience.”
Am I willing to repent?
Racial unity is a powerful concept that transcends cultural boundaries and brings people together. As Christians, we are called to embrace unity and love one another, regardless of our backgrounds. Repentance is more than just saying, “I’m sorry.” It’s a profound change of heart and direction. We are called to repent—to turn away from sin and toward God.
am i willing to forgive?
Racial unity not only requires repentance, it also requires forgiveness. Forgiveness from a Christian standpoint requires us to extend grace and release others from their wrongs. No one says that it’s easy. But it is a necessary component required for unity to occur.
Forgiveness is a gift we receive and offer. Just as God forgave us through Christ, we are called to forgive others. It’s not about condoning wrongdoing but about releasing the burden of resentment. Colossians 3:13 reminds to “bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” It doesn’t mean that the person is innocent of the wrong done. It’s about releasing the burden of resentment that you, the offended, carry with you.